So you are a little nervous about calling me?

The Phone Domination FAQ

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I am worried about discretion. I can't have this on my phone bill or credit card statement. I don't want to get on any mailing lists.
All of my billings are done through The Stockroom. I have worked with the folks at the Stockroom for years, and consider them friends. In fact, they were one of the first toy manufacturers on the net many years ago -- you may remember them as JT Toys. They do not sell names or send advertisements to you. All transactions are billed as "The Stockroom". You may also send a money order or check payable to "The Stockroom" and mail it to my Snail Mail address. You may also want to check out The Stockroom's policy on customer privacy.

If you are worried about the phone bill, we can make arrangements around that as well. You can obtain a pre-paid calling card (it's an 800 number so it won't be tracked), for example. Email me if you want to sort it out.

I have tried to call you and you are never there. I always get your voice mail.
As you can probably tell from my site, I am not a full time dominatrix and I do not maintain this site for a living, I do it on the side. I also do not do phone domination as a part time job; I do it when I am in the mood. Sometimes I take a break for months or even half a year. Sometimes I really get in the mood and I do it a few times a week. I do not have a set schedule, because even though it would be profitable (and make it easier for people to reach me), I only do calls when I am "in the mood." I do not fake it. Unfortunately this means you can only catch me maybe a few hours a week. There are times when I post that I will be available, but then the mood isn't there and I don't take calls. There are also times when I am suddenly in the mood and just start answering the phone with no warning. Your best bet is to:

--Try to call during the hours that I post
--Email me with the subject line "Appointment" to set something up in advance
--Call on a whim -- you never know. I might be there.

I can't call at night and it has to be during the day or from my office.
Email me with the subject line "Appointment" and maybe we can work something out. I can sometimes take calls in the morning before I leave for the real world job. I also take an occasional afternoon off. I rarely post day time hours, but I can plan ahead if you would prefer to call me from your office. Note that your privacy and discretion at work is your responsibility!

I don't know what to say or do. I am too nervous.
If you have read a lot of my non fiction, you should know that I have a lot of empathy, and am very easy going when I am not in lust-domfit-mode. In other words -- don't be afraid. I have never had someone freak out from intimidation, and have had some very shy men call me. I actually find it very endearing. I am a real person. Unlike anonymous phone sex lines, you know me. You know me because you have read what I write. In addition, I know you because I know you have found a connection with something I have written (I could easily set up anonymous phone sex from my house where a broker sex line patches calls to me when I am "in the mood" but that's not what I am about; I want to talk to people who understand me, enjoy what I write, and have complimentary fetishes -- period).

If you are shy, call me and say "I'm really shy." I will take it from there. I will ask you some questions, learn about you, and then present a few ideas for us to explore. I have to admit, I am frustrated at how many times I get emails from people saying they'd love to call for a phone session but don't just because they are shy or afraid. C'mon, I don't bite! (Well, not usually). I have found that the shy types are often the true gems. They are very honest. If this is you, I would love to hear from you sometime.

I have tried phone sex lines and they were a waste. I got nothing out of it.
Most phone sex lines consist of women that are paid by the hour to sit and read a script. I think you probably already know that. Also, you probably know that the hot model you saw on an ad is not the woman you are talking to. If you are a skeptic, I encourage you to read my site -- read a lot of it -- before you call me. I have been posting content here since 1995 and am the real thing.

I don't want to get dominated, I just want to know about you and talk to you but if I call, don't I have to submit to you?
You don't have to submit to me on the phone when you call. If your preference is to just talk and explore ideas, that's always enjoyable. I will be honest though, there are times when I take calls because I am "IN A MOOD" -- and maybe you have called me before, and I have told you that...which means I'm in dominant mode and want to play -- use toys, dominate, do my thing. So if you are in talking mode and I am in playing mode, I might suggest you call another time -- do not take this the wrong way. Most of the time I am just as happy talking about domination, about what makes me tick, etc. But sometimes I am just ravenous and want access to toys and tools so I can frolic in torture mode. Either way, I will let you know and then we can set it up for another time.

I think I might become addicted. I will want it all the time if I start.
If this is a concern, it is valid and you should respect your instincts. However, note that I am not a full time phone dominatrix and will never pressure you to keep calling. I do calls so rarely, as you know, that I am not pushing a business. If anything, I am one to say "have you thought about slowing down."

I don't have any money. I can't afford it.
There are two options for you. One is that I do an "open line" -- I do it about once every three or four months. This is a time I take to talk to people who just want to call and chat about the site and give me feedback. I never know when I am going to do this, but I usually schedule it about three or four days in advance.

Also, there are times when I do a very inexpensive first-time-caller offer -- when I am hungry for new blood. So watch the site for those kinds of updates, you never know when they are coming.

I am a woman -- I don't want to call for phone domination, I want to just talk.
I welcome calls from women at any time and for no fee. If you see I have phone hours posted, call me. The only request that I have is that you do not call with your submissive partner in the room. I welcome calls from women but mostly to talk and answer questions or give feedback, and not to participate in a play session with a husband who is "watching" from the sidelines.

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