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In talking to dominant women, I find that we are more often drawn to the romantic aspects of suffering and pain (and that he will endure it for us), and less about just the infliction of that act. (Keep in mind, I am talking about women who are self-proclaimed to be into dominance and submission, not straight sadists who admit openly they enjoy the act of inflicting pain).
Now, if you take that into consideration, and your dominant partner is physically hurting you, what is your role, your true role, if you want to please her?
In the femdom literature I read (written by men), or the movies I see, or in the professional dominatrix sessions I have witnessed, the male submissive thanks the woman over and over again, or he may talk about how worthless he is and how he deserves it, or he may just do nothing but wail in pain.
I believe that male fantasy has perpetuated the image that the woman inflicting this pain is a cruel-hearted bitch, and the male submissive is playing into that role by responding in tune with that.
In reality, what is your dominant partner really feeling when she is doing this? And how can you play into her fantasy, not just yours?
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